NSFW General Exchange Letter

[wolffyluna]

General

• I like the whole gamut from fluff with a minor conflict to angst that gets resolved to completely tragic tragedies. - Tragedies that are inevitable and tragedies where the ground work for them was laid well before anyone could predict the tragic outcome, so as soon as the characters know a tragic outcome is a possibility it is too late, are both very good. - As are bittersweet endings, or angst with a happy ending
• Hurt/comfort - I like comforters who are being/trying to be relentlessly practical, or who express their care for the comfortee through actions more than words. - comforters and comfortees trying to be stoic (and not necessarily succeeding). - comforters and comfortees pretending that what is going on has nothing to do with one of them being hurt, they’re just being randomly nice/ they’re not hurt at all! - comfort after nightmares/panic attacks/other PTSD symptoms is very good. Especially nightmares. (Nightmares are such a good vehicle for revealing things about a character.) - As is comfort after more recent traumatic events, such as tending injuries after a battle or a character has been rescued from captivity I am a big fan of the hurt being a character having a minor illness or injury that isn’t particularly concerning but does make them feel miserable wound tending is also great h/c. I love the intimacy of dressing wounds, it’s so good.
• Mutual pining/wanting to get together but not be able because [reason], with [reason] being resolved at the end (example reasons: mistaken identity, “I am your boss and it would be unethical”, but in general I am not picky about this dynamic) (Or, of course “I should not take advantage of you!” “You are very much not taking advantage of me, what are you talking about?”)
• Kissing! Forehead kisses, kisses on the cheek, full on make outs: kissing is great!
• Cuddling! I feel the same way about cuddling as I do about kissing! It’s all good. I especially like characters falling asleep leaning against each other. Or characters holding each other, or a character resting their cheek or chin against the other.
• I like exploring the messed up dynamics and/or the terrible-idea-ness of the relationship, if applicable. Characters giving into temptation, eg knowing that a particular relationship is a bad idea, or would be breaking their vow of chastity, but going into it anyway.
• Politics! I love characters trying to navigate it, the tension between their political persona and they’re actual persona, the ethical dilemmas of power, all of it!
• Loyalty, fealty, feudalism, ‘is it gay or just feudalism?’. Dramatic expression of loyalty. Intense loyalties, conflicted loyalties: they're all good.
• Two characters sharing a body
• Dancing, either partner dances or just both people happening to dance at the same time.
• Hair, hair brushing and hair braiding.
• Crossdressing
• Religion, religious discussions and worldbuilding about religion. - I am not invested in any particular religion being right or wrong in a given particular fictional work or world, and I am happy with whatever interpretation you would like to pick. I’ll be thrilled either way! - I am interested in this for both fictional and real world religions
• Horses! Whether they're just in the background, or are a major part of the art/plot. I love horses. You cannot go wrong with horses. Do not be intimidated, I do not expect Wealths of Equine Knowledge fics. If there is horse there, and it gets patted or ridden, I will be very happy.
• Pet rats
• “What if X happened instead of what happened in canon?”/”What if Y didn’t die?”/canon divergence AUs
• Crying
• Geology. Plot relevant rocks, people giving each other rocks, rampant geological symbolism: it’s all good.
• Third and second person POV
• complicated gender and sexuality situations, world building around sexuality and gender. I like fictional homophobia and transphobia (but if you want a to worldbuild an accepting world, go right ahead!) I also like characters who do not fit neatly into buckets, either in their or our society.
• Historical settings or historical inspired settings. Feel free to get very specific with it. Do you think your Blorbos would be great as minor nobles in Merovigian France, or as traders in the 700s Tang Dynasty? I would love that!
• People dying and coming back and having a lot of feelings about that

Art:

• As a general note: anything I’ve mentioned in my general likes (or smut likes), I also like in art. I’ve copied over most of the relevant likes over here as well, so they’re easy to find, but if there’s something in the above list that takes your fancy as something to put in art, go right ahead!
• I am big fan on drawings/re-drawings of canon scenes. If you’ve got a moment in canon you’ve been dying to draw, I would love to see it.
• Kissing! Forehead kisses, kisses on the cheek, full on make outs: kissing is great!
• Cuddling! I feel the same way about cuddling as I do about kissing! It’s all good. I especially like characters falling asleep leaning against each other.
• Characters resting their heads against each other
• Hair, hair brushing and hair braiding.
• Crying
• For art, I like coloured lighting and unusual/restricted palettes.
• I also like intense colours and contrast in art
• I like both digital and traditional art
• Dancing, either partner dances or just both people happening to dance at the same time.
• Horses! Whether they're just in the background, or are a major part of the art/plot. I love horses
• Pet rats
• Crossdressing
• Symbolic representations of relationship dynamics
• Tarot style or tarot inspired art
• Historical fashion

NSFW

• Oral, intercrural, vaginal and anal sex are all good (though I have a particular soft spot for the first three).
• People being supernaturally horny, for example sex pollen or omegaverse/heatverses. All consuming heats that take over people’s brains are also very very good, especially if they are intermixed with being overwhelmed. Also deliberate use of sex pollen, either by the people sex pollenening themselves, or an antagonist doing it In omegaverse, I like knots and ludicrous amounts of slick, but can take or leave omega oppression/gender roles, claiming and scent stuff.
• Rope bondage.
• Explicit negotiation. (Even deeply dorky negotiation)
• Consentacles
• Hair kink/focus on hair.
• Praise kink
• Sadism, masochism, and pain play. As long as the characters aren’t doing any permanent damage that either party does not want, go ahead.
• Ritual sex/deliberately public sex (ie, the public intended to be there to watch)
• Exhibitionism where the audience is consenting. Maybe even making commentary.
• Consensual free use, in the sense of a character being sexually available to whoever (though maybe only in specific circumstances eg at a specific party). Getting passed around as a party favour. Getting asked to bend over and really enjoying it.
• Casual sex, sex in friend with benefits relationships. Rampant polyamory, of the ‘why would my partner(s) care what I do with my own body and free time?’ or, also fun: their partner(s) egging them on to have adventures
• “Forced” orgasms, multiple orgasms, orgasm control/denial, and chastity kink
• Crossdressing
• Sex toys and fucking machines
• Overstimulation/being overwhelmed with sensation. ‘Getting fucked out of their brains’
• Crying, either due to overstimulation or due to high emotions
• Size kink, both of the large penises/dildos/penetrating things and the small penises/dildos/penetrating things varieties. stomach bulges are a lovely bonus to ‘very big’ size kink but small does have the appeal of “and we do not have to think very hard about how were are going to get this into the relevant place”
• Fuck or die, especially when party has to be talked into not dying.
• Significant kneeling, or other significant positioning.
• First times.
• I like noncon/ rape. To humiliate the victim, to deliberately traumatise them, because the agressor is feeling sadistic. Overtly forced, or people being pushed into a situation where they realise they can’t say no, but other people may not believe they weren’t willing. Just fuck these blorbos up.